The Cut: “Is Marriage Obsolete?”

The article provides an in-depth analysis of the essence of marriage and how it has gradually evolved and outlived its relevance, particularly in present-day society. I chose the article because of its catchy title and the fact that it touches on a critical social institution, marriage. I was intrigued and curious to know what the alternatives are if marriage is obsolete. Should being single become the new normal? Moreover, the argumentative style of writing demonstrates the author’s deep familiarity with the subject of marriage. While the article points out the downsides of marriage, particularly the sad fact that many marriages end up in divorce, he uses his personal example to show that marriage can still work. The author creatively dissects multiple perspectives of marriage while maintaining a neutral tone. By and large, the article lived up to my expectations because it led me to understand the diminished place of marriage in society. The once strong value system in the society has broken down and, in its place, a culture of instant gratification, consumerism and materialism has developed, all of which have watered down the value of marriage. The pointlessness of marriage is exacerbated by the expensive ceremonies that accompany it. Those intending to get married have shifted their focus to exquisite weddings and forgotten the true spirit and meaning of marriage. One of the greatest strengths of this article is that its arguments are anchored in research. For instance, the author provides empirical evidence that single people are generally happier, more engaged in communal activities, healthier and more prosperous than married people. However, the statistics do not mean that marriage does not necessarily work. The author’s own experience is a testament that marriage is the most beautiful thing there can be if the couple understands the essence of their union. Therefore, the author’s argumentative style, skillful use of empirical research and incorporation of personal experience makes the article both interesting and informative.

I gravitated to this piece of writing because of its genre. The article falls under the expository or argumentative genre. The expository genre interested me because it blends various elements of narration, argumentation and description to provide information about a particular issue in a logical, balanced and evidence-based way. At some point, the author employs narration where he tells his own marriage experience and then switches to argumentation where he posits that marriage is bliss and can work. The author also uses the elements of description where he maintains a neutral tone as he describes other aspects of marital union. Marriage is a social issue and of utmost relevance, because it is the foundation of the family unit. Thus, using the expository style enabled the author to censor his opinions and feelings about the issue and come up with an objective piece on marriage. Additionally, articles that fall under the expository genre are generally detailed and use many examples to illustrate their arguments. The author exemplifies the expository style of writing by providing detailed explanations and examples on both perspectives of marriage. Importantly, the author does not decide for the reader but simply guides the reader’s mind to determine whether or not marriage is obsolete. Summarily, the author skillfully uses the expository style of writing and combines ethos, pathos and logos to provide objective insights on the place of marriage in the present-day society.